Only time will tell

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
– Vincent Van Gogh

What if all this is all a test? I ask myself this question every time I make a decision. Perhaps it keeps me honest and closest to my truest self. If every action and choice you made was a part of a grand “universal test,” would everything be as it is? After two years of a pandemic and now a war, I wonder. Personally, I try to make decisions for the youth we will hand our planet to one day when we pass by like the wind. Perhaps that is what we are all trying to do, in the best way we know how.

My focus has continuously shifted from myself to the greater good for as many humans as possible. If only we knew how connected we are, how this “universal test” will define us and determine our outcomes. I’m an optimistic person and I believe in peace and good health for all people. I do hope our children, nieces, nephews, god children, and grandchildren will get to see the world united.

We moved into our new home last year and since so much has changed. Much time has been spent creating the perfect reading spaces throughout for my daughters and I, decorating, painting, and starting up the garden. Once I began my MPH program last fall, I really had this sense that I was doing the right things at the right times. I felt in sync with the universal harmony; a sort of “going with the flow.” There has been some serious intentions behind everything.

I’m grateful for this life and know I can only change the world one day at a time. The world needs us to be creative, to join in and lend a helping hand. I witnessed a lot of kind souls doing just that the last two years, individuals that put the greater good of others first. My perception of what success is has very little to do with material wealth as it has more to do with how many people one can support without it being about personal gain. However, in some way they sort of go hand in hand. When we help others from a place of love, we grow into our truest self. That’s just my idea of success and I’m fully aware that their are so many other perceptions of such values.

What will the next few months have in store? Curious to know, what is your perception of success?

We decided to grow our veggies on the balcony instead of the yard because it’s closest to the kitchen.
Liam and I taking tea break in the sunshine, our typical workday break time
Even though we have been having picnics since the girls were babies this is my first picnic basket that has already been put to good use
Had a chance to decorate the living room space and selected furniture that didn’t draw attention away from our view.

Sunrises at home are nothing less than magical, I’m truly grateful

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Vote with consumer confidence

What is minimalism?

Is it the absence of things?

Or is it the ability to give up luxuries and wants willingly?

Perhaps it could be a variation of both, depending on where someone currently stands.

Minimalism, in my definition, is the ability to be in tune with yourself and your relationship to the environment, people, food, health, and just simple things. In which you determine the best possible use of all things with the greatest ethical view point with all persons, animals, and spaces in mind. Just having less could be minimalism, but something will happen to any consumer who has become more conscious of their impact on others. Like any bit of information learned, humans tend to want to go deeper and expand their learning.

Minimalism may start off at one point and lead down to another, than another. For example, I became a minimalist when I learned the ethical practices of some of my previously used products. I realized the way things were marketed to the general public was to entice the consumer to purchase and not ask questions. Too many ingredients in products means most people stop reading labels or just check out completely because they don’t understand. I quickly noticed that the more simplified the product labels and ingredients the safer it was for my family.

Then, I took it a step further and made every product used in our home for years from scratch. From all cleaning products, skin care products, hair care products, and make up. But as my life became busier, as the girls got older with more activities and interest, finding products with the same ingredients I was using became a mission. After more research, I began to look into labels, sources, and even overseas employment standards. So what was just about limiting chemicals from head to toe, turned into my growth in a consumer responsibility.

See every day we vote. Yes, every single day. Every time you make a purchase, pull out debit or credit card for a transaction, you voted. Yes, we have so much power! It’s not just some revolutionary idea. It’s real. See, when we don’t ask questions we are essentially checking boxes to “political candidates” we have never researched. I’m just going to assume no one would ever just vote for anyone they haven’t researched the background of for themselves. Even for a job you wouldn’t hire someone without knowing some history about the person. Here say would not be enough, you would test their skills, ask questions, do a back ground check, and cross reference all references.

Not that it’s not extremely time consuming to do a little research – but you’ll save money because it will slow down your spending (wink, wink). Plus, you can learn the chain of actions and cycles of consumerism. And once you do, you have a few options. Like when there is a mess in your home, you could one, throw a blanket over it and walk around it pretending the house is clean. Or you could put away a few things now, a few later, and get bins to organize until the house is clean. Or you could just do nothing and never clean because you assume things will just get messing again later. See it’s all a mindset and what works for you. Not that one way is better, it’s just what works. When we shy away from knowledge it’s like throwing a blanket over it. And with it comes some consequences that we are just now starting to correlate to our health outcomes. My mom know it intuitively. Thank goodness for my mom! She seriously just knew to teach us to stay away from certain things and chemicals.

Minimalism isn’t just about the absence of things in your home, but knowing what to have and stopping between purchasing to reflect on the why. Why are you purchasing this item? Who is involved in creating this item? Where does this item and the materials come from? How is this item manufactured? What would be a better alternative?

This is not something you would do once you get into the store, otherwise you would be in there forever. You can walk your home and write a list.

Start with the kitchen – look at the labels in your home before you give it a go in the store. If you don’t know an ingredient, it’s probably not known to your body.

Another good space to start is the bathroom – Many people are good at switching to healthy eating, but use toxic chemicals in their hair care products, nail care, skin care, dental care, cleaning products, and supplements everyday.

After you write a list of five things researching alternatives, then switch. If you get comfortable with doing this, do it once a week or once a month and before you know it, your home will be voting for ethically sourced and organic ingredients.

So to sum it up:

Minimalism is not just about having less stuff, but also less chemicals, less ingredients, less unethically sources goods, etc.

Knowing more about what you consume will naturally lead you to understand your power in making an impact.

And switch five things in your home each week or month until you are satisfied. Every  bit counts!

Minimalism is a conscious decision to give yourself the gift of knowledge everyday.